Even Love can not help it! Martin had promised us, he did, here is his testimony, touching and trying. Thank you Martin, I know how difficult it must have been.
Quantcast When Love can do nothing is the story of unexpected reunion of two lovers that life events were abruptly separated thirty years ago.
The thunderbolt is total, unstoppable, sublime ...
She informs me that she does yoga.
Interested in this process I am delighted to congratulate itself.
I realize quickly that this "yoga" has it that an abnormal, early signs, deprives us of much needed weekends and moments due to seminars and other rituals
... We are in 2000 and information on what is called Yoga I do not yet know the name are inaccessible.
That same year, I gave him his trip to Vrads but finds on his return from bizarre changes in behavior.
But love is blind, and despite moments of anxiety, I bear patiently the constraints of the practice.
She then propose, without a second thought, read "My Master" tanks.
Unable to overcome this masterpiece of filth, I discover, terrified, the ins and outs of this "Yoga".
then I start looking for information, rare at that time, but enough to confirm that the track is dangerous.
I discovered then, that my dear friend is a true cult and I undertake laborious research.
The meandering srcmTM are hard to fathom.
is a cocktail of scams and lies very well assembled that can understand ordinary followers drew in his nets.
The most obvious scams have already been criticized on this blog, but summarize the key.
Scam No. 1: parentage of the 3 spiritual gurus Let Lalaji in peace, which, on principles of safe, tried to reconcile two enemies religions: Hinduism and Sufism.
As Babuji, it is determined that Lalaji has met only 3 times and that he refused to appoint a collector. Therefore
already swallow the idea that Babuji was invested in a dream by Lalaji after his death ... (enjoy!).
Finally, the so-called handover of Babuji to Chari made the subject of proceedings against him before the Supreme Court in India for atrocities committed against Babuji and his descendants. The official
parentage is clearly a fallacious attempt to mount accredit guru current and valid historical roots.
Scam No. 2: srcmTM as Trade Mark (trademark)
Anodin for the uninitiated, be aware that filing a trademark is to protect themselves and gain exclusive legal ownership and commercial and therefore the number of case it can generate.
The current guru, a former businessman came to the spirituality of late, was therefore awarded the goodwill promising and very juicy. It is impossible to discern in this initiative, though extravagant in this area, any intention or spiritual connotations, but on the contrary, conclusive evidence of a proposed business hardcore!
Scam No. 3: The benefits of meditation There are countless ways to meditate and have mostly beneficial effects on the meditator.
Simply ask, calming his mind, to focus in the present moment ... generates positive feelings and energy as evidenced by the abundant literature about the subject, and this, whatever the mode of meditation practiced. The scam
major and central srcmTM is to give a particular meaning and very original to the property to be natural.
She explains to his followers felt that the benefits of meditation, how srcmTM, are neither more nor less than the effects of transmission received from the guru, through his collector, the divine presence in the heart of the follower.
The guru is the issuer of a universal divine energy, it is the only course to generate (™), which promises to followers who come to drink from its source spiritual elevation that will guarantee away from the painful cycle of reincarnations ...
And voila ... almost, he still must strictly apply the method.
Scam # 4 : method srcmTM My friend is a collector for about 25 years, quickly named after some months of practice without special training, probably due to its good head and reassuring her pleasant smile. Remember
rituals bases whose only list speaks volumes about the level of personal investment required:
- 3 Siting initiation close, special session, taken from a collector
- meditation daily in the morning on the divine presence in the heart
- cleaning in the evening, another cleansing ritual meditative
- Prayer at 21 am sharp veneration of the master
- 2 week meditation group on Wednesday evening and Sunday morning (Satsang)
- 1-2 weekly sittings with a collector (who himself has to give and receive ...)
- local seminars, regional, national or international, 3 to 5 times per year
- an annual trip to India if you have not had the chance to meet the gaze of the guru live is the rule when peregrinations which are rare today.
All this of course being presented as easy and completely compatible with a normal family life and work, including when a couple in one cheek and the other not ... I guarantee you that, except for fans of threesomes, over time, it's impossible!
Scam No. 5: Raja Yoga, do you ... in here! At the entrance to the meditation room of my friend is sealed a fine gold plate on which are engraved the words "SRCM - Raja Yoga Centre".
Raja Yoga is a higher evolution of yoga accessible to yogis confirmed after years or even decades of practice. At the
srcmTM, just sit cross-legged to access in a jiffy that yogis are masters of lifetimes to approach.
But there is a catch, the teacher will introduce you, my friend in this case, however, has never done yoga, which act!
Worse, reference books yoga warn about the dangers of approaching the raja yoga without going through the preliminary phases.
Scam # 6: How the trap closes A new fan experiencing the benefits of meditation, reassured by the group effect can not arise, or ask questions about the ins and outs this organization.
Practice and rituals gradually taming, packaging, to make it then totally open to the messages of the master. Some selected pieces on
obedience and submission that underlie the process of influence (and strangely lacking in keywords in your blog, Elodie):
"All that is now needed is a blind obedience to the instructions of the Master. This alone will ensure the successful conclusion of the spiritual quest, quickly and safely. "
"All we need now is determination and the will to act and obey the Master in every detail of his direction. "
" For those lucky enough to reach this exalted state, the Master is no longer a guide for spirituality alone. It has now become the Lord of our life in all aspects of life. He becomes the father, mother, son, teacher, doctor, in fact there is no role that He does not play in the life of the abhyasi. He took the abhyasi fully support. Thus we see that only our surrender to Him, can determine the condition where we can take charge completely! "
" What should be the ideal attitude of the abhyasi? According Master's own words: "it must be like a dead man in the hands of a dresser funeral. That is to say that the abhyasi must be like a dead body, free from personal desire, personal opinions and completely devoid of any resistance. Such abhyasi is an ideal material because it offers no resistance whatsoever, not more physical than mental, spiritual powers of the Master. " And so on and best!
Here, dear visitor, one of two things: either you feel a shiver of fear and / or disgust at the mere reading of the above extracts and, hopefully, you can safely resume your normal life, either you find meaning and interest and you are already infected.
Your mind is altered and your critical personal freedom, your integrity, your identity is in danger!
Admitting these statements you close yourself, and yourself, trap, since any criticism of the organization, the guru, the collector, you definitely impossible. You will be encouraged and rewarded for having done this work by yourself and you will maintain self-control in that by this simple effort.
Mental manipulation is clever, the effective control and enslavement Guaranteed :
"like a dead man in the hands of a dresser funeral!" Over time addiction and self suggestion you muteront a zombie and your entourage will attend to your impotent perdition.
The list of scams would still long to list and you can find on this blog, but back to our story.
During the first five years I have tried everything to wake up my friend, convinced that a factor external intruders could not permanently interfere in our romantic relationship and a click would eventually occur.
The subject was not taboo but our discussions most often sterile, sometimes even conflicting.
We lived, however, a real relationship, intimate, and very smooth accomplice, except on this plane where no communication could be established.
In the best moments I sometimes feel she tried, she would have liked, but she could not do it, could not do ...
I then abandoned the idea of leaving there, suggesting they try to take a step back, to ease his practice without giving up but to no avail. We started
not to talk about it, avoid sore subject, and a painful silence and forced settled on this subject.
Breaks short periods began to succeed when its obligations chained to a rate collector, for me, unbearable.
Without any improvement, I realized, helpless, on the contrary, in time, the process of addiction worsened. An overdependence
moved leading to submissive behavior, idolatry, and the anguish of separation is very disturbing, sinister, deadly ...
As the individual freedom ends where someone else's begins, freedom to believe finally begins each abuse of trust of others.
I am much questioned, tortured, even on my inability to respect their freedom to choose to believe and accept it in fact "as is".
It reminded me sometimes: "I am what I am" and I answered emphatically: "No, you are luckily not what you do, you strive to become one they want you to be" .
But I could never doubt his status as abused victim, nor feelings, certainly reciprocal who inspired me the duty to help. It's like finding
a loved one is under the influence of alcohol or hard drugs, you attend to its own destruction without attempting to rescue him!
But the damage of addiction to alcohol or drugs are known and the solutions available and potential detoxification.
damage of addiction srcmTM are diffuse, insidious, sly, unknown and without solutions detoxification.
is the black hole ... everyone back from the other side of the mirror on its own is a challenge, not without a helping hand, and again ...
"There is no humanity without reason"; victims of srcmTM are inevitably brought to lose to mutate into a state of zombie totally thank you to their guru and his organization.
This mutation is fatal for a couple, now condemned to look at each other, like china dogs, permanently incapable of looking together in the same direction.
confidence wilts, the happiness of love turns into despair and resentment painful not being able to find a solution.
is a situation where cons kind words have more sense, reason and common sense more control.
The reality falters, the truth is veiled and an unbearable sense of failure buries the beautiful story.
When I reminded him that "only srcmTM could separate us," she replied confidently: "if you left me because of that, I do not understand ..."
May she understand someday ...
Despite the sentiments, two lovers are separated in an intriguing pain; two people unhappy, overwhelmed and desperate that even love can not help it!
Martin
Postscript: Elodie, I struggled a bit to send my text but I could not, or able, to the bold subtitle scam No. 1 2 3 ...
and certain passages quote "my master" such as:
"blind obedience to the instructions of the Master"
"in every detail of his direction"
"It has now become the Lord of our life in all aspects of existence. He becomes the father, mother, son, teacher, doctor, in fact there is no role that He does not play in the life of the abhyasi "
" there must be such between a dead man the hands of a dresser funeral "
" abhyasi that must be like a dead body, free from personal desire, personal opinions and completely devoid of any resistance. Such abhyasi is an ideal material because it offers no resistance whatsoever, not more physical than mental, spiritual powers of the Master. "
If you can integrate it better!
Love,
Martin
supplements Martin: Thank you for your compassion.
You ask me more details ... So here's, in the limit of my current opportunities.
is (or was ...) a person of a particularly gentle, sedate, sensitive and caring
She returned to Vrads nervous, aggressive and sometimes vulgar.
Some time later she told me that the departure of Vrads it was very difficult: "I could not leave Chari, I cried ..."
I emphasize the pervasiveness of the practice in terms of time and energy: Energy develops where it is placed and increasing demand is a factor in accelerating of addiction that self generates endless.
Initially he arrived punctually to refrain from a few meetings, then it has been less and less capable.
Our life was therefore marked by the rituals of the mission there were days and days without and it was not the same. Us what we grew strongly opposed, which separated us.
functions tutor is still longer than for a simple fan is also more money: room rent, books, trips and seminars ...
Its status and adding to the discomfort I reproached him as his carefree responsibility to attract innocent people into this trap. She could not bear
these discussions, she felt attacked and caparisoned behind or negative responses: "You can not know ... you do not know what you mean ... you have to practice to understand ..." or extravagant about the origin of man, divine energy, the "ented," the dogmas of the mission, etc.. ... I tested the
sittings at 2 or 3 times, but unfortunately for her it did not happen.
I knew that much about this sect, although tutor, she was always confined merely felt and never asked any questions about the reality of this organization, its origins, its goals and practices ... She bought the books she does not even read. This question bothered her, in fact she refrained any challenge, but I think mostly she was psychologically incapacitated, the victim of a conditioning and a way she could not suspect.
This was unpleasant for both of us because our communication was remarkably good on any other subject. When I say "she was trying" is that I sensed at times of demonstrable efforts to try to hear what I said. Sometimes this discomfort is seen even physically. On his initiative, we met a friend at all she pondered the srcmTM occasionally, for a discussion on this topic. While my reservations and criticisms were more attentive ear to the other person, my friend is literally disfigured and I was very shocked to see his face physically transformed, unrecognizable, for a few minutes of pain expression likely insurmountable.
We stopped the proceedings and she left on her friend's advice to consult a shrink ...
The damage from this addiction are not obvious from the outside. But in my case, having known her before she met and after that organization for 10 years, intimately, I was able to observe changes in their behavior over time. Early
little, then more and more changes in mood, feverishness, attitudes sometimes infantile hypersensitivity.
Appearance of lies to justify departures or statement a few days before travel to India reserved for several months.
invested in a "mission" divine duty service the guru, the expression of total obedience and idolatrous, gradually destroys all that is around indiscriminately.
I know that you can not change people, let alone those you love.
But it was because I was opposed to changing the programmed srcmTM I was trying to help.
Martin
